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Faith-Based Leadership Coaching

You are not a problem to be solved. You are a person called to lead.

Most leadership development treats you as a set of gaps to close. This work starts from a different view of the person: intellect, will, conscience, and calling — all at work in every decision you make. What you decide flows from who you are, not just from the tools you’ve been handed.

This isn’t executive coaching with a prayer added at the end. And it won’t ask you to tone down your faith to fit the boardroom — or your humanity to fit the role. It’s rigorous, structured work on real decisions, hard trade-offs, and tangible results, done with your convictions intact.

I am Randy Warren — an executive coach, a retired U.S. Army officer, and a Certified Catholic Mindset Coach. My primary practice focuses on senior leaders navigating professional transition, supported by ICF Level 2 coaching training through UC Davis. This page represents an intentional extension of that work — for leaders who want to bring their faith into the room alongside everything else.

You are in the right place.

“Be transformed by the renewing of your mind.”

— Romans 12:2

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Prayer and contemplation are essential. But God also gave us the intellect to know the good and choose rightly. This coaching develops that capacity, so you can exercise every gift He has entrusted to your leadership.

This Work Serves Two Primary Paths

Executive style coaching grounded in Christian intellectual tradition serves two distinct audiences — and the distinction matters because it shapes both the questions we ask and the terrain we navigate together.

Faith Leaders

Pastors, deacons, parish and ministry leaders, or others in positions of responsibility — who need clarity to implement their pastoral vision without turning their ministry into a corporate operation. The work is helping you lead with the strategic rigor that complex institutional and community realities demand, while keeping your pastoral mission as the north star. You need a thinking partner who understands both the executive dimension of your leadership and the spiritual integrity of your calling.

For faith leaders, the work is about maintaining coherence between your vocation and your leadership — making sure the executive capacity serves the pastoral mission, not replaces it.

Executives and Senior Leaders

In any sector, at any level — who want to bring the full weight of their faith into their professional leadership and decision-making. You are building something or leading people in a context where your faith is not separate from your work; it is central to how you think about it. You need a thinking partner who can help you hold both the professional complexity and the spiritual dimension together, without reducing either to the other.

For executives integrating faith, the work is about ensuring your deepest convictions are shaping your decisions, not just decorating them — that your faith is the lens through which you lead, not something you return to when professional tools run out.

The methodology is the same for both — but the application differs, because the terrain does.

Both paths require the same rigorous examination of what you’re making your circumstances mean about yourself, your calling, and your leadership. Both require clarity about the difference between facts and interpretation. Both require deliberate choice instead of a reactive response.

If you are navigating significant leadership change — professional, pastoral, or both — and you want to do that work grounded in something deeper than strategy alone, this work was built for you.

An Important Note on Faith Tradition

While this work is rooted in the Catholic tradition, the underlying principles — that a life well-lived requires alignment between who we are, what we believe, and how we lead — are not exclusive to any single expression of faith. I have worked with leaders from other Christian traditions, and people of faith across backgrounds who share the conviction that their lives should be ordered toward a higher purpose.

If you are a person of sincere faith — regardless of tradition — who believes that your leadership, your family, and your integrity should be grounded in something greater than yourself, this work may be exactly what you are looking for. Reach out. We can determine together whether there is a fit.

What This Work Is — and What It Isn’t

“Problems yield to technique. People require presence.”

— Gabriel Marcel

Marcel’s distinction cuts to the heart of why faith belongs in this work. A technique can solve a problem. But a person — carrying questions about vocation, identity, purpose, and integrity under pressure — requires something technique alone cannot provide.

But I want to be clear: this is not spiritual direction. It is not pastoral counseling. It is not therapy. Those are distinct vocations requiring different training, different boundaries, and different purposes.

It is executive coaching grounded in Catholic intellectual tradition — a rigorous, faith-grounded process that helps you examine the beliefs, assumptions, and patterns of thinking that are shaping your decisions and your sense of calling. The methodology is non-directive, structured around your goals and obstacles. The difference is that we bring the full resources of Catholic wisdom to that work. Faith is not a backdrop. It is the foundation.

Conscience Formation — Ordering Decisions Toward Human Flourishing

A decision doesn’t just need to be technically sound. It needs to be ordered toward the human flourishing of the people affected — and ultimately, toward God.

 

Conscience formation is the capacity to discern what love actually requires in your situation. Technical competence and strategy matter. But if your decisions extract value rather than create it, use people rather than serve them, or prioritize metrics over meaning, you have separated your leadership from your faith. Coaching helps you bring them back together.

 

To think this way, we draw on Christian wisdom traditions such as:

 

Prudence — Practical Wisdom. The capacity to discern what this particular situation calls for, grounded in principle, experience, and faith. The difference between reacting and responding.

 

The Three Fonts of Morality. A way to examine any decision: the object (what you’re doing), the intention (why), and the circumstances (the context). By examining all three, you make decisions that are both effective and ordered toward human flourishing.

Grounded in Ancient Wisdom, Modern Science, and Lived Experience

This work draws on three foundations: St. Thomas Aquinas’s understanding that our thoughts inform our choices, and our choices shape our character—meaning we can examine and change the beliefs driving our leadership. Modern behavioral science, which confirms that patterns of response can be examined and changed. And Church teaching—two thousand years of wisdom on living a fully integrated life in relationship with God and others.

 

“The things that we love tell us what we are.”

— St. Thomas Aquinas

The deepest questions about vocation, virtue, identity, and purpose require a space where both rigorous thinking and genuine faith operate together. This work draws on all three, informed by a 24-year military career lived through repeated periods of profound transition.

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A Word to Those Who Lead the Church

You have given your life to serving others. You carry the weight of your community, your institution, and your own calling — simultaneously, and often alone.

Pastoral leadership is among the most demanding forms of leadership there is. The expectations are total. The scrutiny is constant. The work never fully ends. And unlike most leaders, you navigate all of it within an institution that is itself navigating profound change — culturally, organizationally, and spiritually.

“The good shepherd lays down his life for the sheep.”

— John 10:11

The leader who is coherent only at work is always one personal crisis away from a professional one.

And yet, for all the structures the Church provides — spiritual direction, the sacrament of confession, the authority of your bishop — there is one space that is rarely available to those in pastoral leadership:

A confidential, structured thinking partnership with someone outside your institution who has no agenda, no authority over you, and no role to protect — whose only purpose is to help you think more clearly about the questions you are actually carrying.

That is what coaching provides. Not spiritual direction. Not supervision. Not another layer of accountability. A genuine thinking partnership — professionally rigorous, completely confidential, and grounded in the same faith that called you to lead in the first place.

I work with pastors, deacons, parish leaders, ministry directors, and others in positions of pastoral responsibility who are navigating significant change, carrying significant weight, or asking significant questions about their vocation, their leadership, and who God is asking them to become in this next season.

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Coaching and the Church — What’s the Difference?

A pastor already has a spiritual director. A confessor. A hierarchy. A community of brothers. Why would he need a coach?

It is a fair question — and it deserves a direct answer.

Each of those relationships serves a distinct and irreplaceable purpose. Spiritual direction accompanies the interior life and relationship with God. Confession addresses sin and offers absolution. The bishop exercises legitimate authority and pastoral oversight. The fraternity of priestly brotherhood offers solidarity and shared identity.

Coaching serves none of those purposes — and is not trying to. What it does instead is provide a structured, confidential space to examine the thinking, assumptions, and patterns that are shaping your decisions and your leadership. It is not about your soul. It is about your mind — and how your mind is performing under the specific pressures and demands of the leadership role you hold.

A spiritual director accompanies you toward God. A coach helps you think more clearly about everything else — the decisions, the transitions, the stakeholders, the questions of identity and vocation that don’t resolve in prayer alone but require rigorous, honest examination.

These are complementary, not competing. Many of the most effective leaders in the Church already work with coaches — quietly, confidentially, and with significant results. The question is not whether coaching is appropriate for those in pastoral leadership. It is whether the leader is willing to invest in the quality of their own thinking at the level their role demands.

Who This Is For

This coaching is for any person navigating a significant change — professional, personal, or spiritual — who wants to do that work through the lens of their faith. The following describes who finds their way here.

Clergy and Leaders of Faith

The Situation

You navigate institutional complexity, community expectations, and your own vocation — simultaneously. You may be facing a significant transition: a new assignment, a difficult community, or you may simply be carrying questions about moving forward.

What We Work On

  • Navigating transitions in ministry
  • Leading institutional change with clarity
  • Burnout prevention and resilience
  • Isolation of leadership
  • Discernment about living out your vocation

What Success Looks Like

You lead with clarity and conviction rather than reactivity. You bring the full weight of your vocation to your ministry without losing yourself in it. You have a confidential space to think through what leadership demands — and you arrive at decisions that are fully yours, grounded in your own deepest values and sense of calling.

Leaders & Executives Integrating Faith

The Situation

You are navigating significant change — and your faith is not separate from that navigation, it is central to it. You want a thinking partner who can hold both the professional and the spiritual dimensions of your transition together, without reducing one to the other.

What We Work On

  • The professional and personal dimensions of transition
  • Maintaining your values under pressure
  • Discerning what this season is asking of you
  • Decisions grounded in your convictions

What Success Looks Like

You navigate the transition without losing yourself in it. Your faith is not something you return to when the professional tools run out — it is the lens through which you lead from the beginning.

Parents, Spouses & Family Leaders

The Situation

You are navigating one of life’s most consequential vocations — partnership in marriage and family leadership. You need a rigorous, honest thinking partnership that honors both your interior life and your leadership — not quick fixes.

What We Work On

  • Discerning vocation and identity
  • Leading a household through change
  • The intersection of professional and family
  • Closing the gap between faith and pressure
  • Decisions grounded in your convictions

What Success Looks Like

Your family experiences you as present, purposeful, and trustworthy. Your leadership flows from clarity about your vocation, not reactivity. The gap between who you’re called to be and who you are is closing — through clarity about what matters. Your faith is the foundation from which everything flows.

The world’s definition of leadership is narrow — God’s is not!

Leadership does not always have a fancy title, or a position of organizational authority.

In the Catholic tradition, every person is called to lead — because every person is called to love, to witness, and to serve in the specific relationships and circumstances God has placed them in.

This work is for anyone who takes that calling seriously — who wants to lead well in whatever arena they have been given, and who believes that faith should be the foundation of that effort rather than an occasional comfort when everything else fails.

A Peer Group That Shares Your Convictions

Some of this work is better done
alongside others.

One-on-one coaching is one form of support. The other is a room of Catholic and Christian leaders navigating the same questions of vocation, pressure, and conviction — who understand it without you having to explain it.

The Advisory Cohort is a small, confidential peer group for leaders who want this kind of thinking alongside others, not just one-on-one — the same rigor as executive coaching, grounded in the same faith-informed discernment as this work.

Small & Confidential

A Room You Can Trust

A select group of peers meeting on a regular cadence — what’s said in the room stays in the room.

Faith-Informed

Convictions in the Room

Real decisions examined through proven philosophical, psychological, and Christian theological tradition — not left at the door.

Rigorous

Not a Mixer or a Course

The same structured thinking as executive coaching, applied in community with leaders carrying similar weight.

Cohorts are now forming. If this speaks to where you are, join the list and I’ll reach out about the next available cohort.

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What the Work Covers

Engagements are tailored to the individual and the real decisions in front of them — a parish merger, a staffing decision that affects families, a board or council in conflict. The following areas come up most often — sometimes one at a time, more often in combination:

Vocation and Calling

Discerning God’s invitation in the specific circumstances of your life.

Transitions and Change

Carrying your faith as an anchor through professional, personal, and spiritual disruption.

Moral Decision-Making

Navigating complex choices through rigorous ethical reasoning grounded in faith.

Identity, Virtue and Coherence

Developing the habits that define who you are while closing the gap between who you are called to be and how you live.

Leadership in the Domestic Church

Leading your family with purpose, presence, and authentic love.

Resilience Under Pressure

Maintaining clarity, peace, and purposeful action when circumstances are working to reshape you.

How It Works

Prayer is always the starting point

Goals & Obstacles

Every session begins here

What are you actually trying to accomplish? And what is standing between you and that outcome? Pastoral leaders and faith-centered executives often arrive with a presenting problem that isn’t the real problem. Anchoring the conversation in the specific goal and the specific obstacle clears the noise and identifies the actual work.

Situation

What Is Actually Happening?

We establish the facts — stripped of interpretation. What is the situation, specifically? Not what it feels like, not what it might mean, not what you’re making it mean about yourself or your calling. What is actually, verifiably true about the circumstances in front of you? 

Interpretation

What Are You Making This Mean?

This is the leverage point. An obstacle is a fact. What a leader makes that obstacle mean — about their capability, their vocation, their identity, their standing before God and their community, their organization’s capacity to fulfill its mission — is interpretation. And interpretation drives response far more than the facts do.

Response

What Is the Deliberate Choice?

Once the situation is clear and the interpretation has been examined, the response changes. Not because the facts changed — but because the leader is no longer responding to their interpretation of the situation. They are responding to the situation itself. 

The same framework — examined through the lens of faith

This work uses the same SIR methodology as my executive coaching practice, examined here through the lens of faith. See how the framework works →

Why I Do This Work

As a husband, a father of three, and a man who has moved his family across six countries over 24 years of military service — I know this struggle from the inside. I have carried the questions of vocation, identity, and calling that no leadership framework was built to answer. I began this work because I needed it myself, and what I found was that when faith becomes the foundation rather than an afterthought, everything changes. Not the circumstances. The clarity. That is what I want to help you find.

 

I live a short drive from Fátima, Portugal — one of the most spiritually significant places in the Catholic world — with my wife Claire and our three children. Over the years I have served my faith community in a number of roles: as an RCIA teacher, a Religious Education instructor, a Youth Minister, and a Youth Sports Coach. I am a member of the Communion of Catholic Coaches and Metanoia Catholic Coaches, and I am currently pursuing a Master’s degree in Pastoral Theology.

I bring all of that to this work — not as credentials to impress, but as evidence that I take these questions seriously at every level of my life. This is not a side offering. It is a calling.

A Life Lived in Transition

Twenty-four years of service. Six countries. Military deployments. Time apart. Three kids who learned how to say goodbye and hello in more languages than most people ever need.


And through all of it — Claire. A woman who packed up a life, over and over, with a grace I still cannot fully explain. Who built something warm and familiar in places that had no roots yet. Who held our family together through the kind of upheaval that breaks most secular marriages — and somehow made each new place feel like home before the boxes were even unpacked. Our children are who they are in large part because of her. I do this work because I have seen, up close, what it looks like when a family is grounded in something that doesn’t move.


These are some of the places and moments that shaped the man I am and the work I do now.

We live down the road from here. Some places choose you.
The Church — and this family — keep showing up to sacred places even when things are still being rebuilt.
Exactly the right kind of joy, chaos, and reverence.
Every country asked us to become something new. We said yes every time.
Three generations present for part of the journey.

A few hours in the cave where Ignatius began. Some questions are only answered on your knees.

The next generation, learning to be still.

We have been to a lot of churches. Some of them are beyond words.

If you want to know why I do this work, these photos are a better answer than any credential.

Why “Red Word”?

The name has two meanings. The first comes from early literacy — the words that defy the rules and can only be mastered through deliberate practice — as explained on the About page. On this page, the second meaning matters most.

In many editions of the Bible, the words of Jesus Christ are printed in red — set apart from the rest of the text as the direct voice of God made man. Those words are the ultimate foundation of this work. Not as decoration. Not as inspiration. As the actual Rules of Engagement for a life lived with integrity, purpose, and love.

“I am the way, the truth, and the life.”

— John 14:6

Red Word Coaching™ exists to help people master the red words of their own lives — using the Red Words as their guide.

Background & Credentials

Randy Warren is an Executive Coach, a Certified Catholic Mindset Coach, a husband and father of three, a combat veteran, a retired U.S. Army officer, with multiple advanced degrees and most of all a man who has lived the questions of vocation, leadership, and identity across 24 years of service in six countries. He brings all of it to this work.

Faith & Coaching Credentials

  • Certified Metanoia Mission Coach
  • Certified Catholic Mindset Coach
  • Certified Military Spiritual Mentor (Enrolled)
  • Member: Communion of Catholic Coaches
  • Member: Metanoia Catholic Coaches
  • ICF Level 2-accredited Professional Coaching Certificate — UC Davis (completing December 2026)
  • Master’s degree candidate in Pastoral Theology
  • Master’s degrees in Leadership and Education

Faith Community Service

The following are some of the leadership-focused faith and community roles held through the years that have shaped how I lead inside and outside the Church and how I now help others do the same.

  • RCIA Teacher & Religious Education Instructor
  • Youth Minister
  • Youth Sports Coach & Boy Scouts of America Leader
  • Parish Pastoral Council
  • Member of Catholic Military Apostolate & Knights of Columbus
  • International Director CMA-USA

Full background and credentials on the About page →

Randy now lives on Portugal’s Silver Coast with his wife Claire, their three children, and their mini-labradoodle.

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— Attributed to St. Catherine of Siena

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